This morning I spoke to a man who has struggled for YEARS to find and talk to attractive women.
I asked him what specifically tended to happen when he saw those women.
“I start to feel nervous, have no idea what to say, and then start to overanalyze the situation.”
In short, he psychs himself out and never ends up approaching her at all.
Does this sound familiar to you?
I work with a lot of single men, helping them through these frustrating and repetitive issues (many of which have been going on their entire lives). So they can openly and easily attract a woman that really loves them for them. And for most of them, this is really what they want – that real, substantial companionship, acceptance and emotional support that comes with a really good, lasting relationship.
But if you carry beliefs in your subconscious that nobody wants you or that you’re not good enough, you can bet that that will keep you single. Even if you do manage to get the nerve up to go talk to someone you REALLY want, that deep insecurity will show through and she’ll feel it, because it’s lurking in your subconscious – unfortunately there’s no hiding what you really believe.
But although there’s no fixing this while the belief remains, there IS a way to address that belief directly and solve the problem. PERMANENTLY.
I help people do this every day.
So if this sounds like you and you’re tired of the anxiety, frustration, and “stuck-ness” of your dating life, reach out and schedule a call with me. It’s free, and you’ll spend an hour getting insight on what the problem is. You’ll be more informed, more clear, and more confident about your ability to fix this issue.
The relationship you want is right on the other side of your fears.
I can help you get there.