Tag: self
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Do Nice Guys REALLY Finish Last?
I bet you hear this from women all the time:“You’re such a nice guy, but…”The dreaded ‘nice guy’ trap.I cannot tell you how many men I speak to who tell me, “women don’t want nice guys, they want **ssholes.”. Well, that’s not actually the case, but it can look that way from your perspective.Because you keep…
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Are you waiting for a woman, to be happy?
The other day, a client told me: “I need a girlfriend. When I have a girlfriend, I will be happy.”Oooooh man! This kind of thinking is so common, but incredibly flawed. Here’s why:The moment you start putting the responsibility of your own happiness on to someone else, it’s a slippery slope. Because it’s flat out NOT someone…
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The #1 Mistake I See Men Make That Keeps Them Single
This morning I spoke to a man who has struggled for YEARS to find and talk to attractive women. I asked him what specifically tended to happen when he saw those women. “I start to feel nervous, have no idea what to say, and then start to overanalyze the situation.” In short, he psychs himself…