I sat down at my desk the other day to write a podcast episode, and began reflecting on the most common problem that the men are experiencing in their dating lives. I’ve realized that nearly all of them can be boiled down to one of these two:
1) They are continuously single with no idea why, despite thinking that they’re doing all the right things, or
2) They struggle with approach anxiety and get into over-thinking when they see someone they find attractive, or just go blank entirely.
I have been doing this work for 15 years, and now my passion is to help single guys just like you to figure out EXACTLY why they’re still single, and to teach them, step by step, what to do to fix it.
Of the hundreds of single men that I talk to, I hear these complaints the most. So today, I’d like to talk about approach anxiety, and the fastest, most effective way I’ve found to eliminate it:
~~ Anxiety approaching women: Look for the voice. ~~
Try slowing down for a minute, and let yourself breathe, and just notice your breath as it comes in and out of your body. Give yourself time to actually slow down (this is important).
After a couple of minutes, let yourself bring to mind a situation in which this has happened, just one. Slow down the situation until you can see exactly what happens when you see that woman. Maybe you feel attraction and want to go over to her, but you freeze and go blank. Or maybe you start getting nervous and overthinking.
Again, letting this be slow, what is the thought that you have, right before the fear starts? Look deeply there and you will find a phrase or a sentence that you “hear” in your head right before you go blank or start to feel anxious.
The Magical System
This process might seem crazy, but it’s MAGIC. Because this is not really a thought, it is actually a belief. Beliefs are very deep and much more powerful than thoughts, and they operate in the subconscious, which means that until you bring it to your awareness, nothing about your relationships with women will change. It’s simply impossible.
Those subconscious beliefs will keep you in the same operating pattern for your entirely life if you don’t change them. That’s what I have studied for over 15 years and that is my area of expertise.
(You can find out more about what I do and how I can help you, here: domineydrew.com/hello )
And now, I have created an 8-week course that teaches you exactly why you are struggling to find a lasting relationship, and exactly how to fix it, step by step.
If you’re wondering if it works, it WORKS.
If you’re wondering if people are getting results, they ARE.
There is never going to be a better time than now, if you let whatever excuse is going on in your head (“I just don’t have the time right now”, “when I finish this other thing I’m doing”, “when I’m in a better financial situation”..) then you might face being single for a long time.
It’s never going to feel like the right time.
Make it the right time right now.
If you’re really ready to STEP UP and change this area of your life permanently, then follow the link below and book free call with me or my team. We will identify why you’re still single and see how I can help. You can schedule a time here: