Do Nice Guys REALLY Finish Last?

I bet you hear this from women all the time:

“You’re such a nice guy, but…”

The dreaded ‘nice guy’ trap.

I cannot tell you how many men I speak to who tell me, “women don’t want nice guys, they want **ssholes.”. Well, that’s not actually the case, but it can look that way from your perspective.

Because you keep getting rejected, tossed to the side, chosen second and unappreciated, right?

Actually if you can believe it, you are EXACTLY what most women want. In fact women are out there every single day looking for men just like you. 

So why do they not date you??

One Very. Simple. Reason.

I’ve recorded a short video for you today, to explain why. Here’s what I cover:

– Why it looks like nice guys finish last

– Why this is in reality a total farce and nice guys really can own the game

– Exactly what you need to do to get there

This is an incredibly powerful video and you’re NOT gonna want to miss it.

Are you waiting for a woman, to be happy?

The other day, a client told me: “I need a girlfriend. When I have a girlfriend, I will be happy.”

Oooooh man! This kind of thinking is so common, but incredibly flawed. 

Here’s why:

The moment you start putting the responsibility of your own happiness on to someone else, it’s a slippery slope. Because it’s flat out NOT someone else’s job to do that. Your emotional state, happiness level (and life!) are entirely on you. It’s yours to make as wonderful or as miserable as you want.

That’s the beauty of life!! 😉

Not only that, but that kind of thinking repels people instead of attracting them, and is GUARANTEED to keep you single. I’ve recorded a short video for you to explain why, and show you what to do about it.

Here’s what I cover: 

  • The three reasons that putting off your happiness will keep you single
  • How living that way will make you feel like less of a man, and massively damage your self-confidence
  • The fastest way to turn this thinking around and begin attracting the right women IMMEDIATELY

Are you ready to FINALLY experience success in your dating life? I can help. Schedule a call to chat:

2 Powerful Hacks to Boost Your Confidence & Attractiveness

As you probably know, I help single men attract life partners through personal and relationship coaching. What you may not know, is that of the thousands of men I have spoken to on this issue, over 80% of them are single because of low self-confidence.

Guys, this is a KILLER.

The fact of the matter is, it doesn’t matter how many dating sites you’re on or how hard you try, if you don’t have any faith in yourself, then you’ll miss the right women even if she’s right under your nose!

So I thought I’d offer a couple of hacks to those of you who may be struggling with low self-confidence around women.

(If you want more than just hacks go here: )


This is such a common problem, so the first thing I want to say is that YOU’RE NOT ALONE! My program is filled with guys just like you who are struggling to approach, speak to and attract women. So don’t think you’re the only one.

If self-confidence is an issue for you, you most likely tend to isolate – it’s just human nature. No one really wants to discuss their problems and vulnerabilities, but this is EXACTLY what takes you from where you are to where you want to be.

So if you are isolating yourself, make CONTACT. Reach out! Risk opening yourself to others even just a tiny bit, and it will start to create movement out of stagnation and things start to shift.


Take a look at the places you spend your time, the people you spend it with, and the things you spend it doing. Write down everything in a list form and really examine it.

As you read through that list, how do you feel? Energized and excited? Or listless and down?

If any aspect of that list makes you feel down or you have complicated reasons for keeping it the way it is, or ANYTHING like that, then seriously consider reshaping that part.

If your life makes you excited and lit up then that will radiate out from you wherever you go. And take it from me: there is NOTHING MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN THAT! 😉

There is a way through your loneliness. I have a proven method and I help guys just like you do it every day.

If you’re ready to start living your best life, with your best mate, follow this link. It will take you to a short video of me talking a bit about who I am and what I do, and if you’re interested then you can schedule a time to chat about what you’re going through.

To your successful relationships!!

Dominey Drew

The #1 Mistake I See Men Make That Keeps Them Single

This morning I spoke to a man who has struggled for YEARS to find and talk to attractive women.

I asked him what specifically tended to happen when he saw those women.

“I start to feel nervous, have no idea what to say, and then start to overanalyze the situation.”

In short, he psychs himself out and never ends up approaching her at all.

Does this sound familiar to you?

I work with a lot of single men, helping them through these frustrating and repetitive issues (many of which have been going on their entire lives). So they can openly and easily attract a woman that really loves them for them. And for most of them, this is really what they want – that real, substantial companionship, acceptance and emotional support that comes with a really good, lasting relationship.

But if you carry beliefs in your subconscious that nobody wants you or that you’re not good enough, you can bet that that will keep you single. Even if you do manage to get the nerve up to go talk to someone you REALLY want, that deep insecurity will show through and she’ll feel it, because it’s lurking in your subconscious – unfortunately there’s no hiding what you really believe.

But although there’s no fixing this while the belief remains, there IS a way to address that belief directly and solve the problem. PERMANENTLY.

I help people do this every day.

So if this sounds like you and you’re tired of the anxiety, frustration, and “stuck-ness” of your dating life, reach out and schedule a call with me. It’s free, and you’ll spend an hour getting insight on what the problem is. You’ll be more informed, more clear, and more confident about your ability to fix this issue.

The relationship you want is right on the other side of your fears.

I can help you get there.

Anxiety Approaching Women

I sat down at my desk the other day to write a podcast episode, and began reflecting on the most common problem that the men are experiencing in their dating lives. I’ve realized that nearly all of them can be boiled down to one of these two:

1) They are continuously single with no idea why, despite thinking that they’re doing all the right things, or

2) They struggle with approach anxiety and get into over-thinking when they see someone they find attractive, or just go blank entirely.

I have been doing this work for 15 years, and now my passion is to help single guys just like you to figure out EXACTLY why they’re still single, and to teach them, step by step, what to do to fix it.

Of the hundreds of single men that I talk to, I hear these complaints the most. So today, I’d like to talk about approach anxiety, and the fastest, most effective way I’ve found to eliminate it:

~~ Anxiety approaching women: Look for the voice. ~~

Try slowing down for a minute, and let yourself breathe, and just notice your breath as it comes in and out of your body. Give yourself time to actually slow down (this is important).

After a couple of minutes, let yourself bring to mind a situation in which this has happened, just one. Slow down the situation until you can see exactly what happens when you see that woman. Maybe you feel attraction and want to go over to her, but you freeze and go blank. Or maybe you start getting nervous and overthinking.

Again, letting this be slow, what is the thought that you have, right before the fear starts? Look deeply there and you will find a phrase or a sentence that you “hear” in your head right before you go blank or start to feel anxious.

The Magical System

This process might seem crazy, but it’s MAGIC. Because this is not really a thought, it is actually a belief. Beliefs are very deep and much more powerful than thoughts, and they operate in the subconscious, which means that until you bring it to your awareness, nothing about your relationships with women will change. It’s simply impossible.

Those subconscious beliefs will keep you in the same operating pattern for your entirely life if you don’t change them. That’s what I have studied for over 15 years and that is my area of expertise.

(You can find out more about what I do and how I can help you, here: )

And now, I have created an 8-week course that teaches you exactly why you are struggling to find a lasting relationship, and exactly how to fix it, step by step.

If you’re wondering if it works, it WORKS.

If you’re wondering if people are getting results, they ARE.

There is never going to be a better time than now, if you let whatever excuse is going on in your head (“I just don’t have the time right now”, “when I finish this other thing I’m doing”, “when I’m in a better financial situation”..) then you might face being single for a long time.

It’s never going to feel like the right time.

Make it the right time right now.

If you’re really ready to STEP UP and change this area of your life permanently, then follow the link below and book free call with me or my team. We will identify why you’re still single and see how I can help. You can schedule a time here: