One of the main things that keeps us single is our past negative experiences.
We look at our past experiences, analyze what happened logically, then adjust our future behavior to avoid what we think caused that relationship to fail. Sounds like it makes sense, right?
But it will fail Every. Single. Time.
Because we’re reaching the wrong conclusions!
We take a guess at what we THINK caused our past relationships to fail, but we almost never guess correctly, because the answers are almost never logical. So then we adjust and limit the choices we make in the future based off what we thing went wrong last time and we start to try and avoid THAT THING.
Here’s an example:
Isn’t that just smart?
This response seems like it makes sense – remove the object that was causing the problem and solve the relationship issue, right? Well, not really.
Because the problem there wasn’t that she had kids, the problem was that she wasn’t able to stand in her power as a parent and teach them how to behave. Had she been able to do that, the kids would have been lovely, respectful humans and would have complimented your relationship, or at least worked to integrate you into their lives.
So, how does this lead to keeping you single?
I’ve recorded a short video for you here to show you exactly how this works. And how to identify what the REAL problem is so you can avoid another failed relationship.
Here’s what I cover:
– How basing your “why” off of past experience can have you chasing your tail and getting no results
– Why your last breakup probably wasn’t for the reason you thought it was
– How to tell what the exact issue is, every time – and not make the same mistakes again
Are you ready to FINALLY experience success in your dating life? I can help. Schedule a free call to chat:
To Living Your Best Life!