The other day I asked one of my clients: “If I introduced you to your perfect woman right now, what would you do?
He said, “I’d find a way to push her away.”
Well THAT was revealing.
This man has wanted a partner and family for YEARS and despite being a great guy, he couldn’t attract it. On our call, we discovered an experience he’d had with his parents at an early age. This experience resulted in a profound fear of abandonment that he didn’t even know he had.
As we delved further, we found that this had developed into a subconscious certainty that people would leave, and that he would get hurt.
So despite wanting that beautiful family more than anything, his old programming from childhood was taking over the driver’s seat, and sabotaging it. And it did it at the worst time: when facing a woman who could actually make him happy. It was on autopilot: trying to “protect” him from the hurt it was sure he’d feel if he let himself trust someone again.
After 15 years of experience in this field, 2 4-year schools and a Master’s degree, here’s what I can tell you with certainty:
Whatever story you’re telling yourself is the reason you’re still single, that’s not it.
Self-sabotage comes in many forms and it is very, very subtle. Obviously, because if you could see the problem you would have fixed it by now. Instead, you’re spending year after year struggling with the same issues and still ending up alone.
I help people figure this shit out and solve it in a matter of weeks. Permanently.
Are you ready to breakthrough this and meet the woman you’ve been wanting?
Are you ready to start your life?
Click here to schedule a free call with me, and let’s see how I can help.
To your love and success!
Dominey Drew, MSc.