Month: March 2019

Do Nice Guys REALLY Finish Last?

I bet you hear this from women all the time:

“You’re such a nice guy, but…”

The dreaded ‘nice guy’ trap.

I cannot tell you how many men I speak to who tell me, “women don’t want nice guys, they want **ssholes.”. Well, that’s not actually the case, but it can look that way from your perspective.

Because you keep getting rejected, tossed to the side, chosen second and unappreciated, right?

Actually if you can believe it, you are EXACTLY what most women want. In fact women are out there every single day looking for men just like you. 

So why do they not date you??

One Very. Simple. Reason.


I’ve recorded a short video for you today, to explain why. Here’s what I cover:

– Why it looks like nice guys finish last

– Why this is in reality a total farce and nice guys really can own the game

– Exactly what you need to do to get there


This is an incredibly powerful video and you’re NOT gonna want to miss it.

How our past experiences keep us single

One of the main things that keeps us single is our past negative experiences.

We look at our past experiences, analyze what happened logically, then adjust our future behavior to avoid what we think caused that relationship to fail. Sounds like it makes sense, right?

But it will fail Every. Single. Time.

Why? 

Because we’re reaching the wrong conclusions!

We take a guess at what we THINK caused our past relationships to fail, but we almost never guess correctly, because the answers are almost never logical. So then we adjust and limit the choices we make in the future based off what we thing went wrong last time and we start to try and avoid THAT THING.

Here’s an example:

You date a woman you really like who has two teenage children. You and she get along beautifully but she is one of those parents who won’t say “no” to her children, so her kids are jerks. They talk back, are unaware of the people around them, talk loudly on the phone, and care only about themselves. Eventually this caused issues between you and her and you were forced to end the relationship.
After that, you thought to yourself: if it hadn’t been for those children, this would have worked out and she and I would be happy forever. So now, I’m going to date only women who don’t have children.


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Isn’t that just smart?

This response seems like it makes sense – remove the object that was causing the problem and solve the relationship issue, right? Well, not really.

Because the problem there wasn’t that she had kids, the problem was that she wasn’t able to stand in her power as a parent and teach them how to behave. Had she been able to do that, the kids would have been lovely, respectful humans and would have complimented your relationship, or at least worked to integrate you into their lives. 

So, how does this lead to keeping you single?

I’ve recorded a short video for you here to show you exactly how this works. And how to identify what the REAL problem is so you can avoid another failed relationship. 

Here’s what I cover:

       – How basing your “why” off of past experience can have you chasing your tail and getting no results
       – Why your last breakup probably wasn’t for the reason you thought it was
       – How to tell what the exact issue is, every time – and not make the same mistakes again

Are you ready to FINALLY experience success in your dating life? I can help. Schedule a free call to chat: 

domineydrew.com/schedule


To Living Your Best Life!

Are you waiting for a woman, to be happy?

The other day, a client told me: “I need a girlfriend. When I have a girlfriend, I will be happy.”

Oooooh man! This kind of thinking is so common, but incredibly flawed. 

Here’s why:

The moment you start putting the responsibility of your own happiness on to someone else, it’s a slippery slope. Because it’s flat out NOT someone else’s job to do that. Your emotional state, happiness level (and life!) are entirely on you. It’s yours to make as wonderful or as miserable as you want.

That’s the beauty of life!! 😉

Not only that, but that kind of thinking repels people instead of attracting them, and is GUARANTEED to keep you single. I’ve recorded a short video for you to explain why, and show you what to do about it.

Here’s what I cover: 

  • The three reasons that putting off your happiness will keep you single
  • How living that way will make you feel like less of a man, and massively damage your self-confidence
  • The fastest way to turn this thinking around and begin attracting the right women IMMEDIATELY

Are you ready to FINALLY experience success in your dating life? I can help. Schedule a call to chat: 

domineydrew.com/schedule