How Is Impatience Keeping You Single?

The other day I received a message in my Art of Attraction Facebook group that’s exclusively for current clients. In it, a client of mine revealed a revelation he’d had from one of our powerful coaching calls around impatience and how it was keeping him single.

And I asked him if I could share it with you because often, the ways in which we keep ourselves single are NOT what we think they are.

And that makes sense, right? If the answer were obvious you would have thought of it by now – identified the issue and fixed it! And you wouldn’t be here reading about how to do just that.

Generously, he allowed me to share this with you, so here it is:

Now as a coach, this is particularly intriguing to me because of one particular phrase:

“I wanted to win and have the other person in the palm of my hand, because I thought that was the only way I could guarantee connection.”

THAT is the gold. That shows an underlying self worth issue so deep it didn’t even take the front seat in this post here. But you can see how such an assumption – that a woman wouldn’t even be interested in connecting with him unless he had the right techniques, said the right things – basically if things were 100% in his favor.

That’s a lot of pressure!!

So much so, that he would get impatient, rush to avoid the discomfort, and end up psyching himself out and losing her – thus keeping himself single.

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I help people figure this kind of thing out and solve it in a matter of weeks. Permanently.

Are you ready to breakthrough this and meet the woman you’ve been seeking?

Are you ready to start your life?

Click here to schedule a free call with me, and let’s see how I can help.

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Is a lack of trust keeping you single??

Hey guys!

I woke up this morning thinking about the podcast episode I recorded last week on trust. In it, I talked about how lack of trust is one of the main ways that people keep themselves single – and it’s true.

Make no mistake: if you’ve been hurt before and are walking around in life bracing yourself against it happening again, it will absolutely keep away the women you want to attract. People can feel the reality of what’s happening beneath the surface, even if you’re not aware of it.

(Imagine if you were AWARE of what was happening inside you and what women were seeing when they looked at you! Then you could address it directly instead of wondering why the people you want seem to not like you. That’s what I teach my clients how to do!)

But often, struggling with trust doesn’t look the way you might think, and a lot of guys don’t even realize that’s the problem. And in fact there’s one way I see men keep themselves single EVERY DAY without even noticing they’re doing it. Is this you??

I’ve recorded a super short video today for you to help you see whether or not this is you. And if it is, what to do about it. Here’s what I’m going to cover in it:

– How to recognize if you have difficulties trusting

– Where they tend to start

– How to fix it

– The tricky, unexpected way I see men keep themselves single EVERY DAY (You won’t believe this one!)

If you are single and don’t know why, this video is for you.

Are you ready to FINALLY experience success in your dating life? I can help. Schedule a call to chat: domineydrew.com/schedule

To your success!

Dominey Drew, MSc.

CLIENT STORY: How is Your Subconscious Keeping You Single?

The other day I asked one of my clients: “If I introduced you to your perfect woman right now, what would you do?

He said, “I’d find a way to push her away.”

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Well THAT was revealing.

This man has wanted a partner and family for YEARS and despite being a great guy, he couldn’t attract it. On our call, we discovered an experience he’d had with his parents at an early age. This experience resulted in a profound fear of abandonment that he didn’t even know he had.

As we delved further, we found that this had developed into a subconscious certainty that people would leave, and that he would get hurt.

So despite wanting that beautiful family more than anything, his old programming from childhood was taking over the driver’s seat, and sabotaging it. And it did it at the worst time: when facing a woman who could actually make him happy. It was on autopilot: trying to “protect” him from the hurt it was sure he’d feel if he let himself trust someone again.

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After 15 years of experience in this field, 2 4-year schools and a Master’s degree, here’s what I can tell you with certainty:

Whatever story you’re telling yourself is the reason you’re still single, that’s not it.

Self-sabotage comes in many forms and it is very, very subtle. Obviously, because if you could see the problem you would have fixed it by now. Instead, you’re spending year after year struggling with the same issues and still ending up alone.

I help people figure this shit out and solve it in a matter of weeks. Permanently.

Are you ready to breakthrough this and meet the woman you’ve been wanting?

Are you ready to start your life?

Click here to schedule a free call with me, and let’s see how I can help.

domineydrew.com/schedule

To your love and success!

Dominey Drew, MSc.

Met a girl? Don’t lose her!

Recently a client came to me not because he was single and looking, but because he’d FOUND her – the woman of his dreams.

So why was this man calling me instead of reclining with his dream girl on a beach somewhere?

Well, she wasn’t responding to him the way he wanted – she liked him but wasn’t showing him the amount of interest that he felt.

But it was more than that.

This man had been rejected by women for – literally – 50 years. Nearly every woman he’d loved had rejected him in one form or another, and he had no idea why. And now he was petrified it would happen again.

Essentially, he was terrified that he would lose her.

So he hires me and within 2 weeks of working with me, he discovered:

EXACTLY why he’d experienced so much rejection from women in his life and,

EXACTLY what he needed to do to fix it!!

Yeah, you heard that right! He struggled with consistent rejection from women for 50 YEARS with no idea why, and even less idea how to fix it. And in 2 weeks he had his explanation AND his solution.

Even better, a few days later, she did something amazing that he had never expected…

So I recorded a short video below outlining the remarkable turnaround he experienced from her!!

Learn more about how I can help you by visiting this link:

domineydrew.com/hello

Frustrated To Be Facing Valentine’s Day Alone Again? GOOD.

Why Valentine’s Day Unhappiness is the BEST

Are you tired of bracing yourself for the hype of Valentine’s day year after year?

What if you could be planning a weekend getaway with the woman of your dreams instead?

THERE’S STILL TIME.

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Look, I understand how you must be feeling: lonely, frustrated, and frankly, probably ready to give up some days. And I understand why – you’ve been wanting a fulfilling relationship for a long time, trying everything you can think of and you still aren’t seeing any results. I understand because every one of my clients feels the exact same way.

And who wouldn’t be frustrated?? Who wouldn’t want to give up? What person in their right mind would keep banging their head against a wall expecting to make a dent?

So you know what I say to that frustration?

GOOD.

GET frustrated! Get angry – let that energy motivate you to try something NEW that might actually clear the road to the amazing relationship you want (because what you’ve been doing certainly hasn’t been working!).

Let your frustration break you through your resistance – that hesitation to ask for help, your preference to isolate rather than reach out – and push you toward real change!

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I have over 15 years of experience in this field and I can tell you right now that there is nothing more powerful than getting to that point where you’re willing to do whatever it takes to alleviate your pain and fix the problem. THAT is when change happens.

Is this the year?

You have the opportunity right now to decide that this will be the LAST Valentine’s day you will spend alone. You have the chance to decide that you will do whatever it takes to get out of your own way and find the woman who was meant for you. And to never let her go.

I help people do this every single day: find what’s holding them back and eliminate it. Permanently. And FAST.

Are you ready to start your life?

Click here to schedule a free call with me, and let’s see how I can help.

domineydrew.com/schedule

To your love and success!

Dominey Drew, MSc.